LITTLE MISS BEE IS LIVING A DOUBLE LIFE.
By day, she’s a high-powered working professional proudly shattering glass ceilings and climbing the corporate ladder. But off the clock, she’s a kink-positive, active member of the rope bondage community.
In the final episode of the 3rd season of the GETSOME Podcast, we discuss personal authority, self-acceptance, and keeping it kinky. Our guest, Little Miss Bee, manages to keep her professional and personal worlds completely separate without losing touch with either side of herself. Ultimately, her openness and experiences give us the space to reflect on our own desires and boundaries, helping us find a path towards our own sexual, personal, and professional empowerment.
Show Notes:
- [00:00:30] Little Miss Bee describes her very clear sense of direction and openness to various sexual and non-sexual experiences.
- [00:01:00] The dichotomy of Little Miss Bee's life: a professional by day, exploring her deepest desires by night.
- [00:03:00] Discusses the importance of consent and boundaries within the kink community, emphasizing her role as both a top and a bottom.
- [00:05:00] Little Miss Bee's passion for rope bondage, known as Shibari, and her journey from being tied to becoming a rigger.
- [00:10:00] Talks about seeking connections that go beyond physical interactions, aiming for a deeper, more meaningful connections.
- [00:15:00] Little Miss Bee reflects on her sexual evolution from a "desirous, sex-positive teenager" to moving slower, taking in the sensuality of it all.
- [00:20:00] The challenges of maintaining non-monogamy, dealing with societal expectations, and the joys of living authentically.
- [00:25:00] The allure and etiquette of sex parties, describing them as spaces where consent and hedonistic desires meet.
- [00:30:00] A perplexing moment when Little Miss Bee confronted prejudice while revealing her open relationship status.
Michelle's book, Coming Soon: The Unshaming Guide to Early Ejaculation and Lasting Longer, is available now at comingsoonbook.ca.
GETSOME returns for Season 4 in September 2026. The through line is the same: your body is communicating, not malfunctioning. You are not broken.
LITTLE MISS BEE IS LIVING A DOUBLE LIFE.
By day, she’s a high-powered working professional proudly shattering glass ceilings and climbing the corporate ladder. But off the clock, she’s a kink-positive, active member of the rope bondage community.
In the final episode of the 3rd season of the GETSOME Podcast, we discuss personal authority, self-acceptance, and keeping it kinky. Our guest, Little Miss Bee, manages to keep her professional and personal worlds completely separate without losing touch with either side of herself. Ultimately, her openness and experiences give us the space to reflect on our own desires and boundaries, helping us find a path towards our own sexual, personal, and professional empowerment.
Show Notes:
- [00:00:30] Little Miss Bee describes her very clear sense of direction and openness to various sexual and non-sexual experiences.
- [00:01:00] The dichotomy of Little Miss Bee's life: a professional by day, exploring her deepest desires by night.
- [00:03:00] Discusses the importance of consent and boundaries within the kink community, emphasizing her role as both a top and a bottom.
- [00:05:00] Little Miss Bee's passion for rope bondage, known as Shibari, and her journey from being tied to becoming a rigger.
- [00:10:00] Talks about seeking connections that go beyond physical interactions, aiming for a deeper, more meaningful connections.
- [00:15:00] Little Miss Bee reflects on her sexual evolution from a "desirous, sex-positive teenager" to moving slower, taking in the sensuality of it all.
- [00:20:00] The challenges of maintaining non-monogamy, dealing with societal expectations, and the joys of living authentically.
- [00:25:00] The allure and etiquette of sex parties, describing them as spaces where consent and hedonistic desires meet.
- [00:30:00] A perplexing moment when Little Miss Bee confronted prejudice while revealing her open relationship status.
Michelle's book, Coming Soon: The Unshaming Guide to Early Ejaculation and Lasting Longer, is available now at comingsoonbook.ca.
GETSOME returns for Season 4 in September 2026. The through line is the same: your body is communicating, not malfunctioning. You are not broken.
This is a story about how one couple embarks on a journey of rediscovering their sexual chemistry after 15 years, employing mindfulness, cannabis, and flowstate. Listen as host, Certified Sex Therapist Michelle Fischler, interviews Ellevan and Winny Clarke, hosts of the Disciplined Stoners on how covid helped to reopen their door to sexual exploration.
Show Notes:
[00:00:17] Michelle introduces the topic of rediscovering sexual chemistry after 15 years using mindfulness and cannabis.
[00:02:39] Ellevan talks about mindfulness, flow state, and his interests, including being a freestyler, comedian, singer, and cook.
[00:08:26] Winny opens up about her recent transformation, breaking free from old patterns and becoming more confident and curious.
[00:13:14] Michelle explains the concept of mindfulness and sensate focus therapy for deeper connections during sex.
[00:18:14] Ellevan and Winny's journey with mindfulness and its impact on every aspect of their lives, including sex and eating.
[00:22:30] COVID brought them closer and deepened their intimacy, leading to more open discussions about sex and their needs.
[00:27:21] They discuss jealousy in their relationship and how they navigate it through open communication.
[00:31:00] Winny shares her fantasy but also admits that she's not ready to put it into practice.
[00:35:53] The episode ends with a discussion about the importance of embracing mindfulness and breaking societal taboos around sex and body image to create a healthier and more fulfilling intimate life
[00:36:11] This show is produced by Katie Jensen at Vocal Fry Studios.
Winny Clarke is Netherlands born, Canadian raised, and resides in Toronto. She has been passionate about acting from a very young age, always involving herself in school and community theatre. In 2006, she attended The American Musical and Dramatic Academy in Los Angeles, where she studied for two years. Upon the program's completion, she moved to Vancouver, where she took to the stage in plays "Here on the Flight Path", "The Wedding Singer", and "Alice in Wonderland". In 2013, Clarke moved to Toronto with a dream of film and television. Since then, Clarke has appeared in 14 feature films, most notably being "Christmas By Chance" airing on Lifetime and the SuperChannel. Clarke is also a yoga teacher with over ten years of experience in the field, a dedicated meditation practitioner, and an animal lover and advocate. Disciplined Stoners is a space where Winny can explore and question her upbringing, decision making, and life’s purpose
Ellevan is an internationally loved vocalist, producer and entertainer from Toronto, Canada. With over 10,000 hours in the field, Ellevan earned his stripes by setting a world record of recording, producing and shooting 365 songs and music videos, in 365 days in 2018. With the buzz of his world record, he then went on an international freestyle tour throughout Indonesia, Jamaica, and U.S.A, sharing his passion for music abroad. He’s written for and collaborated with platinum status artists, Karl Wolf and Craig Smart. When he’s not in the studio, you can find him on stage for the cannabis friendly series Disciplined Stoners Live, where he, along with a live band, creates songs on the spot via audience interaction and suggestion.
Where to find DIsciplined Stoners:
Disciplined Stoners: https://www.instagram.com/disciplinedstoners
Winny Clarke: https://www.instagram.com/winnyclarke
Ellevan: https://www.instagram.com/ellevanmusic
Sign up for Winny’s Mailing List here: http://eepurl.com/gCIZg1
Follow us on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1XDoMv08pT9EfyBaCXNnaj?si=7a557f0e0bf14d4d
Follow and Listen to Ellevan on Spotify:
https://open.spotify.com/artist/0G1sZ8clT2oSvzQ3IL2ZRd?si=vJVw9FLyS6GtF453Ny21kQ
Michelle's book, Coming Soon: The Unshaming Guide to Early Ejaculation and Lasting Longer, is available now at comingsoonbook.ca.
GETSOME returns for Season 4 in September 2026. The through line is the same: your body is communicating, not malfunctioning. You are not broken.