The Boy in the Tighty Whities

GETSOME

You know that feeling at 2am when you're Googling alone, hoping no one finds out? When sex feels complicated and there's no one safe to talk to about it? When you're wondering if something is wrong with you, or if you're the only one feeling this way? You're not. And you never were. GETSOME is the podcast for anyone who's carried sexual shame in silence. It's for the questions you've been too embarrassed to ask, the patterns that confuse you, and the nagging feeling that maybe you're not broken... you're just human. After a hiatus to complete her first book, certified sex therapist Michelle Fischler is back with the unshaming conversations you've been waiting for. GETSOME doesn't give you technique lists or clinical lectures. Instead, Michelle meets you at the exact point of your confusion and helps you see what's actually happening in your mind, body and your nervous system, so you can stop measuring yourself against myths and start trusting yourself. Coming April 28, 2026: The Unshaming Guide to Early Ejaculation and Lasting Longer. Learn more and pre-order at comingsoonbook.ca. Season 4 is in the works, and we're genuinely excited to be back.

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7 Sep, 2023

S02 - S2 - Ep 14

The Boy in the Tighty Whities

Chances are, if you have a unique sexual turn-on, there are many others with the exact same inclination. So many, in fact, that you might just be able to make a career out of it. That's what Milo Miles did. We met Milo last winter at the Dan Savage Amateur Erotic Film Festival, Humpfest. Milo starred in the documentary film "The Boy with the Tighty Whities." The film was selected from hundreds of submissions and was chosen to be showcased in theaters worldwide. This was the first time he revealed a more intimate side of himself and his kink on the big screen, in front of hundreds of people.

We dive deep into Milo's childhood in Colombia, immigrating to Canada, when his interest in tighty whities began, his surprising pivot from politics to adult entertainment, and now, as he undergoes a gay renaissance, we discuss how therapy and social connections have facilitated his journey to self-acceptance. Join us for a raw, eye-opening journey from politics to porn, with self-acceptance at its core. Tune in; it’s a must-listen.

Show Notes

[00:00:00] Milo on fetish origins linked to puberty.

[00:00:29] Michelle on sexuality as a key to understanding clients. [

00:01:16] Introduction of Milo's documentary.

[00:01:35] Milo’s surprise at Humpfest film audience.

[00:01:43] Milo’s transition from politician to the porn industry.

[00:03:48] Comparison of Milo's political and current earnings.

[00:07:24] Milo's acceptance of sexuality through therapy and growth.

[00:09:38] Milo advocates for passion without fear of judgment.

[00:12:09] Milo’s upbringing amidst heteronormative and immigrant perspectives.

[00:15:44] Milo's challenging upbringing and family dynamics.

[00:17:37] Milo's two-part coming out experience.

[00:20:21] Reasons behind Milo’s career change to porn.

[00:22:37] Milo’s parents’ reactions to his career and sexuality.

[00:23:48] Milo’s journey and challenges as an OnlyFans creator.

[00:25:55] Discussion on OnlyFans representation and Milo’s content strategy.

[00:29:04] Milo’s perspective on relationships and friendships.

[00:30:58] Milo’s advice: therapy and the normalization of sex work.

[00:32:44] Milo's contact info. [00:33:53] Closing remarks by Michelle and show info.

Find everything Milo Miles here: https://linktr.ee/milomiles

Production Credit: Katie Jensen at Vocal Fry Studios

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If our lens on sex resonates with you, Michelle’s first book—Coming Soon: The Unshaming Guide to Early Ejaculation and Lasting Longer— is now available on Audible.

Narrated by Katie Jensen of Vocal Fry Studios.

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